Many of us have difficulty moving through the stages of grief. Sometimes no matter how hard you try, it seemed the grief would not dissipate. You will need an alternative approach to remedy the situation.
It may be helpful to divert your attention to things around you. You may want to provide care and help to those in need. Here your attention is focused on those who are in need and you are there to fill that need. Soon you will be able to work through your grief, because you have give of yourself to help others in need. Here you are able to discover the lesson of healing through giving. Giving takes away many of the pains we carry in life.
Mark 4 : 24
Pay attention to what you hear; the measure you give will be the measure you get, and still more will be given you.