Why is it so difficult to control our overactive mouths?
We love to talk and talk, speaking before we think, voicing our indignant opinions, and criticizing everything and everyone in sight. James 3 : 5 describes the tongue as a force of destruction, saying, "The tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things. See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire!"
God's Word, however, emphasizes the importance of guarding our speech.
2 Timothy 2:16
But avoid worldly and empty chatter, for it will lead to further ungodliness.
1 Peter 3:10
The one who desires life, to love and see good days, must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking deceit.
It is always a struggle to control our speech. However, with a concerted effort and guidance from the Holy Spirit, we can overcome these ailments.
Complaining
Philippians 2:14-15
Do all things without grumbling or disputing; so that you will prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent. . . in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world.
In simpler terms, this verse instructs us to carry out the duties of our day without grumbling.
Lying
Proverbs 12:22
"lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who deal faithfully are His delight.’
The Scripture assures us that God's perfect love casts out fear. (1 John 4:18) Ask God to show us that, because His truth resides in our heart, we do not need to lie.
Anger or Criticism
Proverbs 15:1
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Swearing or Using God's Name in Vain?
Matthew 12 : 36
But I tell you that every careless word that people speak, they shall give an accounting for it in the day of judgment"
Leviticus 19 : 12
You shall not swear falsely by My name, so as to profane the name of your God; I am the Lord
James 1:26.
If anyone thinks himself to be religious, and yet does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man's religion is worthless.
(0514 07 III 2008)